What we believe, is any relationship must not be carried because you need to carry it. Relationships are meant to be carried forward from within, and if there is any confusion, whether your relationship is going “better or not”, must be analyzed to the core.
The most important thing in any relationship is the purity of carrying it further with no obligations, at all. But, in case, you have a question in mind ‘To be in or not’, calls for a self-analysis and some other aspects.
Here, I present you with 5 signs (if you are experiencing an estranged relationship) your relationship has no future at all and you must get out of it, as soon as possible. Always keep in mind, the sooner, the better it is!
1. You are carrying the relationship just because you have to!
If from the core of your heart, you feel like since “you committed to your partner, you are going to carry the relationship further”, I believe there is no future at all in such relationship. Such relationships must be broken sooner than later.
Relationships are not forced, but must be built from the inner heart and a person needs to be happy in taking to the further level at will and not by force! There is no scope of any relationship, which calls for ‘liability and no willingness’.
2. Personally, you believe you don’t have any future with your partner
If you are opinionated that your relationship with your partner has no future at all; there is seriously no future at all. If you see no future with your present partner, why sticking around. If the relationship is going nowhere, why carrying it further.
Just, move on in life and start the search for someone else, with whom you can see your bright future and more importantly a happy life. Sticking around in any relationship, which gathers nothing in the future, is just a waste of time and your efforts.
3. Hanging out on a weekly basis
I think that any relationship which has enthusiasm and willingness, is not a weekly task to be accomplished. If you really want to be in a relationship and you do care for your relationship with your partner, you must be willing to meet your partner more than once per week.
I see no reason in meeting your partner only on weekends (when you are free!). Ask, your partner to have meetings and hang out for more than once a week, and in case, there is a refusal from the other end, we fear to say, it’s a sign you must move on in life and start searching for someone else.
4. No texting, etc. on other days
Maybe you both are busy enough in your daily lives. But are you so busy, that you don’t have a minute’s time to text your partner on whereabouts, each day?
If such is the scenario in your relationship, sort it out, analyze your relationship as what we feel it’s not going fine and you must move on if things remain the same in the near future.
5. Your partner’s opinion differs on almost all major issues
It’s not important that you or your partner has always the same opinion on any important matters. But, if you totally differ on almost all matters of life, which is going to affect your future life, then things must be reconsidered once again.
Having a different opinion and personal choice is one thing, but differing from your partner on everything is what is not expected in any relationship, which is meant to be carried for a longer time.
Any bad relationship must be gotten rid of as early as possible!
